one more thing cos this is sumthin i have thought
think about the genetics your givin you offspring
it's not so bad i guess (hope)cos they get half of you as well
but i think it's luck if a relationship last a long time
and no other reason

me a cycnic.....YEAH
now i'll have to see Love Actually just to get that warm fuzzy feeling back

alright let see, now i don't want to upset people but girls how will/did/does your man handle his 30th birthday take note of this it comes up every ten years (sorry guys but it does)

for guy here's a note
girls NEED to vent
that is they just need to get things off their chest (so to speak)
they are not always after a solution and most of the time once they get to vent they are better
also remember the little things, they count heaps
little things around the house, little things not around the house, little pressies ALWAYS go down well (this is not to be included in the "does size matter" debate, i'm not going there)
the smallest thing you do counts (BOTH WAYS, tricky huh)

and lastly
the little habits that a person has will bug you big time later, but remember you have habits too so don't go the holier-than-thour route
now ask ya self if you respect your partner, think about it cos if ya don't respect them your relationship WILL NOT last
either you'll grow to hate them or they will grow to help them

relationships
habit - it's comfortable so why leave it, you know them and they know you, sure it doesn't have any spark, but it's comfortable
pity - your with them because you feel sorry for them, if you left them they wouldn't have anyone (ya ain doin em any favours here)
fall in - they were there and you were there what's to figger
friendship - we share the same intrests and have so much in common
TRUE friendship - your happy when they're happy, your sad when they're sad, you keep getting little things for them just cos, you respect them and they respect you, (remember the respect thing it comes in later), you put them ahead of yourself and they do the same, THEY TREAT YOU WELL (get the picture)

sum types of people:
dreamers - (i know this one, i was married to one) they dream up all these things they are GOING to do but never do, even when you back em up and say "go for it"
users - those who leech off you
Do'ers - yay they're a winner
"holier-than-thour" - you can never do anything right and they are always right, you will always be blamed for everything, even when the other person DID do it
nasty - just stay away from them

sum types of people:
dreamers - (i know this one, i was married to one) they dream up all these things they are GOING to do but never do, even when you back em up and say "go for it"
users - those who leech off you
Do'ers - yay they're a winner
"holier-than-thour" - you can never do anything right and they are always right, you will always be blamed for everything, even when the other person DID do it
nasty - just stay away from them

what i have learnt over the years and other misadventures

for everyone
you may be attracted to sumone and that is great and fine BUT
have a look at them
how do they treat the people around them, ie their mum, their friends, their work mates
how do they talk about people, do they put everyone down
do they just talk about themselves
i know passion is wonderful but, come on people if they're goin to be in your life do your research
have the passion, PLEASE have the passion
but think before you jump

okay what the ......
this is new
at least to me
and yes i know i haven't done this for long long time
as my niece would say
whatever