alright let see, now i don't want to upset people but girls how will/did/does your man handle his 30th birthday take note of this it comes up every ten years (sorry guys but it does)

for guy here's a note
girls NEED to vent
that is they just need to get things off their chest (so to speak)
they are not always after a solution and most of the time once they get to vent they are better
also remember the little things, they count heaps
little things around the house, little things not around the house, little pressies ALWAYS go down well (this is not to be included in the "does size matter" debate, i'm not going there)
the smallest thing you do counts (BOTH WAYS, tricky huh)

and lastly
the little habits that a person has will bug you big time later, but remember you have habits too so don't go the holier-than-thour route
now ask ya self if you respect your partner, think about it cos if ya don't respect them your relationship WILL NOT last
either you'll grow to hate them or they will grow to help them